Tell me what should i do ?
1. Be a network engineer , go to UAE , earn well , marry a wealthy beautiful girl , have 2 good kids , bring them up well , go for old people associations , and die with your family and friends near you .
YUCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKKKK ............... I would rather die now than after wasting 50 years like that .... Oh god ,not this , not this one please.
2.Go to US/Europe/Australia , study Film making , work part time as network engineer .Come back to India , make beautiful movies , write beautiful stories
Wow .. sounds a lot better .But in reality , very very low chances of this happening. Why ? I am not rich like you :)
3.Stay in Chennai , i already have good contacts with film industry . But i dont know a damn thing about film making . So join as a assistant director , and study things , go on to make a movie at 30
Easy ? I have 2 Lakhs of debt to be paid off ! And how would my family react ? Throwing away a good career in engineering for nothing ? Also comes the very good chance of being nothing and lost in life !
4.Go to UAE , make some money come back and get in to film making
Well , at what age ? 67 ?
5.Stay normal , be network engineer , find another better job here in Chennai . Stay connected to films , hope that you will get a break some time in the future
My mom already asked me about marriage , and how long should i wait for this so called 'break in life' ?I thank God for giving me a healthy and good life . But the fact of the matter is that , i have never got that ' break in life ' which i believe is that factor which makes up a life for a person .
What should i do ? Does any one else have any other ideas ?
8 comments:
Hmmm i am not so old to give ideas but i can tell a few..
See in life, we cannot choose the place where we are born or the parents and relatives we get... but we get our chances to choose friends, career and life partner... now you ll definitely have good friends... career--- network engineer with 2 lakhs debt and a dream to become a film director.. hmmm complex... but if you sit and think.. make a priority list... you ll definitely end up in a good plan... All who have money is never happy... they ll need something else which you might possess in ample... then the third part.. life partner.. why do you degrade urself.. the person who is for you will definitely understand you no matter what. keep loving until love finds you...
i don know if i tried to help a little atleast.. but this is what i think...
Thank you Raghav , that was really helpful .
I know i am at that point of life when your mind is confused and dont know what to do , with all aspects of life
But trust me , i will get out of this , i am confident that i will find a way out of this and make that important decision of life
I have only one option in life , that is to succeed !
Thats the spirit... keep going... you ll definitely be successful...
its very simple do what u think u should do (as it says in literature follow ur heart!!!) n then stop thinkin abt it too much , stop making the list of pros n cons otherwise u mite make a sensible decision but there s also a chance that u ll regret it for the rest of ur lyf and one thing i am sure abt is dat noone wants to die with a regret...nows d only tym u can take a risk u cant do dat wen ur 35 n lyf begins at 40!!ur as old as u think u are ur birth certf mite say differently but who cares...!!! live ur lyf u hav got only one shot at it, make the most of it n even if u screw up wat d hell u screwed up doin somethin u enjoyed doin not jus wastin ur tym.
p.s. stop complainin so much der r lives much worser than u... at least u got to make a film some ppl jus die waitin for their stories to end.
You guys are right!
I have been home for the weekend , i feeling a lot more confident now .
I have decided to be more disciplined in life . Mastering my mind is what i need . I will do that , and i will be back !!
Good to hear that... Would love to read a wonderful blog about your happiness soon...
3-4 years after completing engineering and we are still in the same start line... whats the point :P
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